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The “T & A” of a Las Vegas Burlesque

In a recent “5 Martini Lunch,” Las Vegas PRIDE had the opportunity to chat with one of our favorite local and vocal Burlesque performers. We chatted about strong men and women, strong cocktails, and, most importantly, the challenges of vaudeville/burlesque authenticity in performance in this “model type” home we call Las Vegas Entertainment! Lou Lou Roxy and Norma had a great afternoon!

Roleplay & Fantasy

Fantasy has always been part of human intimacy. From childhood games of make-believe to the stories we tell ourselves as adults, imagination helps us explore identity, power, vulnerability, and desire. In kink and BDSM spaces, roleplay and fantasy become intentional, collaborative tools for consenting adults to step outside everyday norms and into something curated, negotiated, and deeply personal. At its best, roleplay isn’t about escaping reality. It’s about understanding ourselves more clearly through creativity, communication, and trust.

The Intersectionality of Names

What's in a name? For some, they'll have only one: the name their parents gave them at some point in life's early moments. Others might change names as the seasons do, adopting new ones to suit their various moods, phases, or simply as it pleases them. I've found myself at an interesting crossroads lately, as I am realizing that while I have many names depending on how close we are, what stage in life you've met me, and the degree to which we might be kinky together...and that one of these names is starting to feel more like "me" than the others...and it wasn't the one I was given by my mom at birth; but it is close.

The Manor Men: Victor

Set within the shadowed elegance of a Victorian-style mansion, "The Manor Men: Victor" opens a new photo essay series for PROUD & Kinky Magazine—one that explores power, poise, and presence through a distinctly gothic lens. Victor moves through the pages like a well-kept secret, blending classic masculinity with quiet provocation as history, desire, and individuality intertwine. Each image invites the reader deeper into the manor, where the past lingers, confidence reigns, and every gaze tells a story.

Entering the Scene

So you’ve been curious about “the scene.” Maybe you’ve read a few articles, followed some creators online, or chatted with friends who swear their local kink community changed their lives. And now you’re thinking about attending your first event. Exciting? Yes. A little intimidating? Also, yes, and totally normal. Whether you’re kink-curious, newly out, or simply looking for community, entering the scene is less about knowing everything and more about showing up with openness, respect, and a willingness to learn. Let’s break down what to expect, starting with the most common entry points.

Call Him Daddy

Crush Daddy is a commanding presence wherever he goes. This month, he steps into a new role as one of KinkMen.com’s dominant tops where he exudes the confidence of someone who has spent years mastering both body and mind. A former basketball player, Crush brings disciplined athleticism to his performances. Sports once defined his world, and that foundation, later refined through years as a personal trainer focused on physique as much as performance, now fuels his on-screen authority. Speaking with us from his home in Houston, Texas, Crush opens up about his global upbringing, sexual fluidity, and his evolving relationship with kink.

Consent, Negotiation & Communication

In kink spaces, consent isn’t just a buzzword; it’s the foundation that everything else is built on. It’s what transforms desire into trust, curiosity into connection, and fantasy into something that can be safely explored together. Whether you’re brand new to kink or a seasoned player revisiting the basics, understanding consent, negotiation, and communication isn’t about rules; it’s about respect, agency, and pleasure for everyone involved. Let’s break it down in a way that’s practical, accessible, and grounded in real experience.

Laughing Through the Loneliness: Danny Will Die Alone

By the time Danny Will Die Alone premieres its third, and now final, season on Dekkoo this February, creator Jack Tracy will have completed one of the most unlikely arcs in contemporary queer television. What began as short-form webisodes posted to OnlyFans has grown into a fully realized half-hour comedy series and one of Dekkoo’s most successful originals. It’s a trajectory rooted not in algorithmic luck or studio backing, but in something far more radical: honesty about sex, dating, and the loneliness that persists even when liberation is promised. Season Three doesn’t arrive quietly. Set six months after the provocative polyamory cliffhanger that closed Season Two, the new episodes plunge headfirst into fallout: emotional, sexual, and ideological. Poly relationships fracture, hookup patterns repeat, and Danny’s search for intimacy spills into speed dating, amateur porn platforms, divorcees, and New York City sex parties. It’s funny, uncomfortable, horny, and crucially, sad.

Sacred, Sinful, and Safe

Las Vegas is often described as a city of excess, spectacle, and fantasy… but beneath the neon and noise lives a community that understands something deeper: liberation is not just about pleasure. It’s about safety, consent, dignity, and care. That is where the Sin Sity Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence live and work. Squarely in the beautiful gray space between sacred and sinful. For more than two decades, the Sin Sity Sisters have served the LGBTQIA2S+ community of Southern Nevada through radical visibility, irreverent joy, and unapologetic service. While we are widely known for our signature over the top “habits”, glittered faces, and campy style fundraising, our deeper mission has always been rooted in compassion, particularly for those living with or affected by HIV/AIDS through our AIDS Drug Assistance Program, SADAP. In recent years, that mission has expanded to more explicitly include kink-affirming, sex-positive, and fetish-friendly spaces… not as novelty, but as necessity.

From the Editor

There’s a moment that happens, sometimes on a stage, sometimes in a dungeon, sometimes in the quiet honesty of a conversation, when someone decides to stop shrinking. To stop apologizing. To stop waiting for permission. This issue of PROUD & Kinky Magazine lives squarely in that moment. From the velvet-draped rebellion of Las Vegas burlesque to the carefully negotiated fantasies of kink and roleplay, every story in these pages asks the same essential question: What happens when we show up fully, authentically, and without shame?

Naughty Playground 2025

After a twelve-month hush, when the queer kink scene in Las Vegas felt like it was holding its breath, PROUD & Kinky swung the doors wide open on June 20, 2025, and reminded us exactly why we missed them. Their triumphant return, aptly titled “Naughty Playground,” took over The Usual Place and packed it with more than 230 revelers, each ready to rekindle the raw, electric magic that only a well-run, radically inclusive play party can conjure.

The Fuckball was Fucked So Hard it Split

Recently, I exhibited my art piece, “The Fuckball,” at a festival, and it was destroyed. For those of you who don’t know what this is, I am an artist, and I created a 6-foot-tall, colorful, latex inflatable ball covered in 12 penetrable vulvas (and one not-so-secret butthole). The Fuckball represents the objectification of female sexuality, but it has multiple layers of meaning and has existed in a variety of forms as a piece of art.

PrideStyle Wrestling

On a Saturday night in downtown Las Vegas, Main Street buzzes with energy; bars are packed, neon signs glow against the desert night, and music spills from open doors onto the sidewalk. But once a month, that energy takes on a different kind of charge inside Swandive, one of the city’s hottest small venues. That’s when PrideStyle Inclusive Pro Wrestling takes over, turning the nightlife hotspot into a roaring arena of body slams, sequins, and unfiltered queer joy.

My Journey into Sex Work

My journey started in 2020 during lockdown. I turned 40 a few weeks into the shutdown. Locked in the house with my partner, feeling scared, lonely, frustrated, and invisible. I had been around sex workers, swingers, polycules, queer folx, and other open-minded people for years. Watching how they seemed comfortable in their own skin. And I wasn’t. I was insecure about my body, my weight, and my age.

Consent

Consent should be enthusiastic, freely given, informed, specific. A clear and voluntary choice. An agreement made with your voice. Well, that sounds nice, with so much clarity we’ll avoid all that vulgarity of being misunderstood or seen as not so good.

5 Questions with Saint Anique

How does your kink identity influence your creative work? I've been making art my whole life, but the intersection of kink and creativity for me is where I started performing. When I started in burlesque, I was exposed to an entire world of queerness and kink I'd never experienced before. It changed my entire life overnight and put me on the path to piecing together exactly who I am and what I want. I feel that all of my creative work is informed by this, either directly or indirectly.

5 Questions with Jonny

What message do you hope your work sends to other queer kinky people, especially those just starting to explore? My work is ultimately a love letter to queer kinky people, especially those just starting to explore. I want it to say: you are not alone. There’s power and beauty in discovering your desires, even if the world tries to shame them. I hope my art gives permission to feel, to want, and to play without apology.

Miles from Philadelphia to Vegas

Miles Fallon may have gotten his start in Philadelphia, but the rising gay adult film star knew that to take his career to the next level, he needed more than just passion, he needed a playground. “Philly has a special place in my heart,” he reflects, “but when it comes to the adult scene, it’s way more lowkey.” With no major studios and limited local opportunities, Fallon found himself constantly on the move, bouncing from coast to coast to stay in the game.

Liquid Red Las Vegas Celebrates a Decade of Kink, Creativity, and Community

In the fall of 2024, Liquid Red Las Vegas, a semi-monthly, LGBTQ+ inclusive kink-themed event, celebrated its milestone 10th anniversary. Since its debut in 2014 at “The End,” a zombie apocalypse-themed bar off Spring Mountain, the event has become a staple of Las Vegas’s alternative nightlife scene. Originally launched as part of a goth night, Liquid Red has grown into a traveling immersive experience.

From the Editor

There’s something electric about Vegas in the late summer, the nights stretch a little longer, the sweat feels a little sexier, and the community comes alive with boldness, curiosity, and connection. This issue is our love letter to that energy. Whether you’re a leather-clad veteran of the scene or just starting to explore your kinky, creative self, we’re here to hold space, hype you up, and hand you the lube.

Finding a Sex Work-Friendly Therapist

You are not “too fucked up” for therapy just because you haven’t found someone who gets you. Therapy is a gatekept profession, meaning it is filled with a lot of privileged people who are out of touch with the complexities of survival and the impacts of whorephobia. Any shame you have felt from a therapist is a reflection on them and the therapy industry, not on you.

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